<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\nMost times, when you do not have a gambling problem\nyourself, it can prove difficult to understand what someone with it goes\nthrough or even why he or she cannot stop. Now that you have an idea of what\ngambling addiction is like, and you have someone close to you that has a\ngambling problem, the most important thing you should understand is that you\ncannot force him or her to stop or change their behavior; but instead, you can\nhelp them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gambling addiction recovery is not easy; it takes hard work as well as a lot of encouragement. Many compulsive gamblers end up turning their lives around mainly from the support of those people who are close to them. If you know a compulsive gambler and you really want to help them, but you do not know how, here are a few tips to get you started.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Understanding them \u2013 and yourself too<\/h3>\n\n\n\n To communicate with someone more effectively, the key\nis trying to understand what he or she is going through. Sometimes when someone\nfeels they are understood; they are often likely to open up and be honest with\nyou and also with themselves. This allows you to come up with and negotiate a\nplan together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
While some gamblers may not be aware that they have a\nproblem, the ones who do may have feelings of shame, remorse, and guilt,\nespecially when they know that their problem is affecting those close to them\nas well. In addition, in their desperation to try to regain the lost money,\nthey may end up developing behaviors that are out of character to them like\nstealing which can be shocking to both family and friends. All this may cause\nfeelings of anger, hurt, and betrayal, which can prove difficult for people and\neven you to understand and help them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Therefore, finding ways to understand both the problem\ngambler and yourself is a great way to start the journey of helping them.\nUnderstanding is as simple as finding out and understanding what gambling\naddiction is, its underlying causes, symptoms, consequences and then putting\nyourself in their shoes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Talk to them about the Problem and Explain the Consequences<\/h3>\n\n\n\n Discussing the problem with a compulsive gambler is the next important step. If you start seeing a pattern of behavior that leads to gambling addiction, it may be a good time to step in. Especially if it is getting the person into trouble. To make the approach easy, first of all consider your relationship with the person whether you are close, related, or just casual friends or even colleagues. If you were not close, the best approach would be to discuss with someone closer to the gambler the problematic behavior you have noticed. You can talk to the spouse, a relative, or a close friend. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you are talking to them, calmly explain to them\nthe consequences of gambling and try to make them understand. Present the facts\nlogically about the damage and harm compulsive gambling can lead to. In the\nprocess, avoid being judgmental as they may become defensive when you try to\nexplain things. Try to remain calm and sympathetic since expressing blame and\nanger will only lead to more problems. If at first the conversation doesn\u2019t go\nwell, don\u2019t push it as you may make the other person more angry or unwilling to\ncommunicate, simply let it go for a while and then broach the subject later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Encourage Treatment and Follow Up<\/h3>\n\n\n\n As a treatment starting point, you can suggest a gambling hotline to the person when they admit they do have a problem. Secondly, encourage them to get treatment for their addiction. Gambling addiction can be managed and completely recovered through the use of various therapy techniques. Therapy can also help the person to figure out or get a diagnosis of an underlying condition, if any, and are treated for that. Treatment may involve the use of medication for the underlying or related disorders and in severe cases, inpatient treatment may be necessary. Also, through therapy, he\/she can learn to cope with stressors and triggers that may lead to relapse and impulses. Support groups<\/a> are also a helpful technique to cope with gambling hence encouraging them to join one is good too.\u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\nThe road to gambling addiction recovery can be long\nand hard therefore always purpose to encourage them if they feel discouraged or\nhelpless. You can offer to be their designated person or sponsor to help them\nface the problems that may arise during recovery together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Always Be Supportive<\/h3>\n\n\n\n Relapses can be triggered by boredom or when the person has unstructured time. You can help with this by helping them learn how to keep busy or spend more time with them. Also, encourage the person to pursue healthy hobbies that will refocus their attention from gambling. You can suggest new hobbies, or encourage them to get back into doing anything they used to be interested in before they started gambling. Lastly, since gambling often leaves a person in a serious financial crisis, you can help them figure out how to approach their financial problems and get things back in order. An important tip before or during the healing process: avoid providing or loaning money to the person since it can reinforce or contribute to the behavior continuing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
As a go away tip, part of recovering and moving on is\naccepting what happened. Dwelling on the past will not do anything for both you\nand the compulsive gambler. Therefore, acknowledge what happened, forgive the\nperson, help them with the treatment process and if necessary, sometimes it\nhelps to distance yourself from them temporarily. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Anyone from any occupation can have gambling problems. While many people can enjoy gambling without it becoming an issue, sometimes gambling can go from a fun and harmless activity to a rather unhealthy obsession and usually with serious consequences. Whether it\u2019s betting on scratch cards, sports, slots, roulette, or poker, – in a casino, online […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":2219,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"yoast_head":"\n
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